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Often, when I try to explain the work of the Humanist Community at Harvard (or just Humanism in general), I get the question, “So why don’t you just join a Unitarian Universalist church?”
It’s actually a great question. UU churches are pretty awesome. They’re extremely politically progressive, pluralistic, and social justice-oriented. They have fantastic Sunday school programs, which are of particular interest to me. They’ve got a lot of infrastructure in place since they’ve evolved out of more traditional churches – infrastructure that would save us from having to reinvent the wheel and build these kinds of communities from the ground up. And they are full of atheists. There’s even a joke about it:
Q: What do you call an atheist with a family?
A: A Unitarian.
And UU churches aren’t the only barely-theistic religious communities around. Humanistic Judaism and Reconstructionist Judaism are both thriving communities in which many atheists and Humanists would feel at home.
So if all this is out there, why bother starting over?
The limitations of nontheistic forms of Judaism are obvious: if you are not ethnically and/or culturally Jewish, it’s probably not your jam. Those communities are fantastic for people who want to stay in touch with their Jewish roots, but anybody who wasn’t raised speaking Hebrew and starting everything at sundown is likely to feel a bit out of place.
As for UU churches – and other extremely liberal religious denominations that welcome atheists – I think these present a subtler but even more important limitation: they don’t really take a stand on belief. God isn’t really in, but he certainly isn’t out, either.
To be clear, I don’t think this is necessarily a bad thing in itself. There is something pretty awesome about a bunch of people with different theological/philosophical beliefs coming together regularly to support each other, raise their children together, work for justice, and so on. UU is great for that. It’s not necessarily better or worse than Humanism; it’s just different.
But I do think there is value to forming that kind of community around not only shared values, but also shared beliefs. Simply put, it matters a great deal whether God does or does not exist. We are looking at a very different world in one case than in the other. Different approaches to purpose, ethics, and meaning are called for in each case. Although the outcome is often very similar – from the outside, living a good life as a theist looks a lot like living a good life as an atheist – the path and the inner experience are different in non-negligible ways.
I want to belong to a community that shares my beliefs and my values. I want to have a place where I can talk openly about my beliefs, fears, hopes, and questions, and where people with similar convictions can hash out these ideas together. I want to mourn my losses with people who will not tell me my loved ones are with God now. I want to celebrate love and commitment with people who agree that life is short and finite. I want to raise my children in an environment where they can tackle big questions early on and grow alongside like-minded peers. I want to work for justice alongside people who see ourselves and each other as our only hope for salvation.
I want a Humanist community.
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